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Being Poly by Serrian Conservative
Polygon? Polynomial? Polyphenols? Poly wanna cracker? On 10/12 at 9PM ET, Sero leads a chat on Being Polyamorous that’s not just for poly people! Yes, we know that polyamory is just wrong and should be either multiamory or polyphilia but let’s just go…

Jealousy by Serrian Conservative
Sero talks about Jealousy in the Life and Lovestyle of BDSM. 10/19/22

Establishing Healthy Boundaries by Garden Chat Topics Conservative
SummersKiss talks about Establishing Healthy Boundaries. 10/22/22

Trauma in BDSM by TheKinkShrink Conservative
Every adult has gone through some form of trauma and has had varying success with healing that trauma. On 10/15/22 The Kink Shrink talks about healing and managing trauma.

Grief, an all you need to know by TheKinkShrink Conservative
To grieve is normal and natural, and as such should not be seen as an issue or a condition to be cured, no set timings, your discomfort watching someone’s process is a YOU problem, not a them problem.

The break up doesn’t have to break you by TheKinkShrink Conservative
Look, relationships don’t always work out, and that is shit.

THE NEED FOR SPEED by FRR Mallory Conservative
“I am looking for a NEW SUBMISSIVE to collar as my slave.” Why? This comment is perhaps one of the more common statements made by Male Dominant names in Internet chat rooms.

The Dominant’s Creed by FRR Mallory Conservative
Qualities of a Dominant

The Dominant by FRR Mallory Conservative
DOMINANT, PREDOMINANT, PARAMOUNT PREPONDERANT, SOVEREIGN…superior to ALL others in power, influence or importance!

TESTING~ by FRR Mallory Conservative
The act or process that reveals inherent qualities, traits, characteristics. A procedure for determining a change in condition.

TERMS… by FRR Mallory Conservative
A few definitions

Taking Responsibility by FRR Mallory Conservative
There is a pervasive belief that because you are now oriented toward a different lifestyle that it is permissive to break all the rules of good conduct, ethics, morality, sexual responsibility and basic human dignity

Switches by FRR Mallory Conservative
The Switch. Adding this component into understanding of the community is often similar to adding a dose of confusion or chaos.

Submissive vs Slave by FRR Mallory Conservative
This distinction appears muddled, misunderstood and generalized by a great number of the people that I converse with.

Submissive Statistics by FRR Mallory Conservative
As to the odds of finding a dominant female…

SUBMISSIVE REBOUND by FRR Mallory Conservative
Submissive Rebound is a reaction that occurs in most submissives at some point in their relationship with a Dominant.

SUBMISSIVE MYTHOLOGY by FRR Mallory Conservative
If a human being at some point in their childhood becomes the focus of physical and/or sexual abuse does this then turn them into a submissive at some later point in their lives?

Submission on Terms by FRR Mallory Conservative
All submissives being created as equal or the nature of expressed submission as being of one form to the exclusion or dicardment of any variations or diversity within the nature of that expression.