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Young Adults & BDSM

Guest Blog: Young Adults & BDSM By Dr. Lee Kinsey Trends in young adult sexuality are poorly tracked. Because many in the United States are squeamish about studying sexuality there is not much we know about what emerging adults do and do not do with their sexuality. However, some researchers who study sexuality have noted […]

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This Practice from BDSM Should Be Part of Everyone’s Sex Lives — No Matter How You Play!

Happy Kinktober! Originally created as an event to share and create art, Kinktober has evolved into a celebration of all things kinky among sexuality educators and various kink communities. And when kink comes to play, there is automatically an understanding for the need of aftercare. Kink, when it comes to sexuality, is considered any practices, desires and fantasies that are considered […]

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When Stigma Gets in the Way of Kink

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/talking-about-trauma/202110/when-stigma-gets-in-the-way-kink People in kink communities need support and acceptance, not judgment.Robert T Muller Ph.D. Co-authored by Deanna Gisborne and Robert T. Muller, Ph.D. “The only guilt I feel is the manufactured cliché guilt that society thrusts upon people who have weird kinks.” Wilson (name changed for anonymity) has self-identified as part of the feederism community since elementary […]

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Somnophilia – The Kink for Sleeping Sex

Abby Mosshttps://www.lelo.com/blog/somnophilia-sleeping-sex/ This article was scientifically fact-checked by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. I recently came across a kink known as somnophillia, or sleep kink. I’ve written extensively about all kinds of kinks in the past, there isn’t a lot left out there that shocks me. Or makes me feel uncomfortable. But this kink seemed […]

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What Is Ethical Non-Monogamy?

For one thing, it’s a relationship style that’s becoming more popular than ever.by ALI WUNDERMAN AUG 31, 2021 The concept of having multiple sexual partners is nothing new to humanity—just ask the ancient Greeks, who enjoyed notoriously glorious sex lives and “had a desire for anyone and anything.” But when it comes to modern romance, navigating life beyond monogamy […]

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New and News on The BDSM Garden

Hi, all! I am working on keeping our blog kinda updated. Have you been there? Do you have any thoughts to add? Any journaly type posts that you might be hesitant to post on the site but make an awesome blog? Let me know! Most Recent Additions to The BDSM Garden SUBMISSIVE MANIFESTATIONS by FRR […]

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Download Consent Signs

June 15, 2021https://ncsfreedom.org/2download-consent-signs/ Download these Consent Signs to post on your social media and print out to put on the wall at your club or event. Choose the consent slogans that best fit your consent culture, and let everyone know what your standards of conduct are with eye-catching images. NCSF pulled these slogans from a […]

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Everyone Is A Little Bit Kinky

 June 22, 2021https://ncsfreedom.org/2021/06/22/everyone-is-a-little-bit-kinky/ “Stoller’s contention that everyone is a little bit kinky stuck with me and it’s served as a guiding light for my own thoughts and writings on the topic. Rather than put forth the notion that only a tiny subset of people is kinky, I instead have attempted to foster an awareness and […]