Author: Benevolent Goddess

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Vetting

A vet is someone who is qualified to treat sick or injured animals. A vet is someone who has served in the armed forces of their country, especially during a war. To vet someone is to investigate fully before being given a particular job, role, or position, especially one that involves military or political secrets. […]

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October is National Kink Month!

Best Practices for Explicit Prior Permission for Consent to Kink: 1. Did you agree to the specific acts you’re going to do together, including if there’s going to be any sexual contact like touching the breasts or genitals?2. Is everyone an adult and able to consent: they’re not under the influence, in subspace, having a […]

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How to be a Dominant

Last week, we were asked how one becomes a Dominant. Let’s chat about it this week! What does one have to do to be a Dom/me? Is it natural? Is there training? Study? Watching porn and imitating Christian Grey? Let’s chat together and try to answer one of the more difficult and common questions. Saturday […]

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New on The BDSM Garden

Most Recent PREVAILING VOICE by FRR Mallory Conservativehttp://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1427In many ways a human being can be fairly compared to a computer. It is possible to consider a persons ‘hardware’ to be the structure produced by the DNA coding at conception.     PRESENT by FRR Mallory Conservativehttp://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1426Present is a command issued to and used by the submissive to formally present of themselves to […]

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New and News on The BDSM Garden

Hi, all! I am working on keeping our blog kinda updated. Have you been there? Do you have any thoughts to add? Any journaly type posts that you might be hesitant to post on the site but make an awesome blog? Let me know! Most Recent Additions to The BDSM Garden SUBMISSIVE MANIFESTATIONS by FRR […]

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Download Consent Signs

June 15, 2021https://ncsfreedom.org/2download-consent-signs/ Download these Consent Signs to post on your social media and print out to put on the wall at your club or event. Choose the consent slogans that best fit your consent culture, and let everyone know what your standards of conduct are with eye-catching images. NCSF pulled these slogans from a […]

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Everyone Is A Little Bit Kinky

 June 22, 2021https://ncsfreedom.org/2021/06/22/everyone-is-a-little-bit-kinky/ “Stoller’s contention that everyone is a little bit kinky stuck with me and it’s served as a guiding light for my own thoughts and writings on the topic. Rather than put forth the notion that only a tiny subset of people is kinky, I instead have attempted to foster an awareness and […]