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SCENE SPEAK ~ by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1446
Scene speech is a language that we develop and use solely in-scene. We reserve this speech to augment and accentuate the atmosphere of the scene and often to heighten the sensory experience for both Dominant and submissive.
SANITY by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1445
Much is said about Safe, Sane and Consensual within the BDSM lifestyle, it has become a cornerstone catch word for living. What isn’t being discussed is the necessary evaluation of mental condition that it entails upon all people.
SAFE WORDS ~ NO SAFETY by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1444
One of the most talked about features of the BDSM community is the existence and usage of the Safe Word or Safe Call or Safe Sign.
SAFE by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1443
Safe: secure from threat or danger, harm or loss. Except, there is no such security. D/s and BDSM exist where safety is tenuous at best. Assurances of complete safety simply cannot be given.
SADIST ~ by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1442
The practice of intentionally inflicting pain or sensation upon another human being as a means of obtaining sexual energy release predates Comte de Sade
Roots… by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1441
It is my personal belief that D/s emerges from the most basic primal and instinctual triggers within the human body and human mind.
RITUALS by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1440
Ritual’s are most often associated with religious faith’s or belief’s but in actuality they exist throughout our daily lives under other names.
Risk Aware vs. Safe, Sane and Consensual by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1439
The ‘idea’ of ‘risk aware’ has been around a long time. The problem being that most people are not really aware of the risks at all.
RESPECT by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1440
Within the BDSM community it is common to find large numbers of people who believe that by merely ‘naming’ themselves or ‘self-labeling’ ensures them the ‘right’ to expressions of respect.
REQUIREMENTS OF SERVICE by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1437
This list is for the potential sub/slave desiring to enter into full service to me. It includes play potential’s that the sub/slave should believe themselves to be capable of handling.
Reputation by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1436
Your reputation within this community began the moment that you decided to explore this community and made your first contact within it.
RELEASE by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1435;
When an individual feels a sense of ‘removal of power’ or ‘removal of control’ toward that which inflicts or appears to inflict upon them sorrow, suffering, burdens or oppression they may seek or tend to seek a vent to release or lessen the full measure…
Queening by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1434
It is curious to explore one of the mysteries of queening and to see within its example so many intriguing concepts and ideas
PURITY OF SUBMISSION ~ by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1432
How to be pure? Especially with the context or layer of yet another abstract concept – submission.
Public Play by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1431
Public Play or scening is a fairly popular past-time for members of the D/s or BDSM community. It is for many an opportunity to socialize with other members of the local community
Protecting Love by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1430
How do I protect my Master from charges of abuse or wrongful death if should I die there are marks on my body, which there generally are? I am older, I could easily have a heart attack . . .
promiscuous Domination and submission… by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1429
For ‘sex’ or ‘scening’ to be a meaningful experience there must be an investment or belief in its intrinsic value.
Pride and Punishment by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1428
During a recent all Dominant gathering a comment was offered regarding the ‘stripping of pride’ as part of punishment for a submissive. The comment disturbed me and has lingered in my mind.
