Hi, all!

I am working on keeping our blog kinda updated. Have you been there? Do you have any thoughts to add? Any journaly type posts that you might be hesitant to post on the site but make an awesome blog? Let me know!

Most Recent Additions to The BDSM Garden

SUBMISSIVE MANIFESTATIONS by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1403
There are a number of characteristics which the submissive can and may display. Generally a majority of these traits will reveal in times of acute stress, anxiety, excitement or trauma 

The ‘Good’ Submissive by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1388
If this realm were merely about the offering of the body for the entertainment or sustenance of the illusion of submission then any actor could fill the role and play the game.   

It’s Magic, You Know by Sinistar Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1232
Wizarding rules as applied to D/s

The Art of Surrender by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1363
Surrender: To cease trying to retain or control and agree to yield. To devote oneself entirely to ‘something’ without restraint, reservation or resistance.   

The Body as a Wonderland by Illiana Cole Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1254
Sexual availability in D/s dynamics.

Intimacy by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1365
Intimacy is defined as a close personal relationship marked by deep affection and love, frequently characterized by depth of knowledge and attention.    

The Dominant Female… by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1372
Those that seem to carry the traits the strongest appear to descend from families of historical dominance. I believe that most women are naturally ‘commanders’ of their realm.   

Inside the Storm by Illiana Cole Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1240
Handling conflict in D/s

The Dominant Model by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1373
There are several types of Dominant Models. Ways and means to identify if and when an individual is dominant.   

Identity by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1397
Sometimes it feels like we have an overwhelming need for labels.   

The High End Submissive by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1392
This submissive often emerges quite young. This submissive is most often a female. S/he will generally be quite bright, articulate, charming, loving, giving, career oriented, willful.   

Humility by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1396
The act of humility, the state of presenting yourself so to the world is perhaps one of the most difficult things to do.   

The Invisible Hair by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1398
That damned invisible hair that starts itching as soon as a submissive is bound.

Humiliation, all you need to know? by TheKinkShrink Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1306
This is from a workshop I run on humiliation. Humiliation IS edge play.

the p word by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1359
All four letter words beginning with *p* are not the same.    Play and Poly do not mean the same things.

HUMILIATION …and the male submissive by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1395
Humiliation and the male submissive is often the delivery of shame.    

Tis Better to Give by Sinistar Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1224
This is your life; give your precious commodities your way!

HUMILIATION …and the female submissive by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1394
One of the most delicate practices of the BDSM community is the art form of directed, controlled, willful and consensual humiliation.   

Traffic Lights, Fruit, and… Ghosts by Illiana Cole Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1238
Using safewords and gestures

Even Walls Fall Down by Sinistar Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1226
The art of not being a bull in the D/s china shop.

What is Compromise in BDSM by Garden Chat Topics Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1350
Please join Pjosi in talking on Compromise.

Ethical BDSM by Littledragon Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/index.php
By little dragon Oct 18, 2020. How to be in an ethical BDSM dynamic.

What is Obedience? by Garden Chat Topics Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1354
The concept of obedience presented by little dragon 11/25/20.

Dropping Knowledge by Sinistar Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1230
Addressing drop in Doms and subs

What’s Behind Door No.1? by Illiana Cole Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/index.php
Let’s talk boundaries and limits

ALL THAT YOU WANTED TO KNOW ABOUT FISTING BUT WERE AFRAID TO ASK by Fats Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1356
After observing and responding to several “How do I fist” posts I am writing an article on it so that everyone can share in this most wonderful and loving act.   

WHEN FANTASY COLLIDES WITH REALITY by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1383
The problem comes when the individual tries to translate a fictional realm into a real life lifestyle.