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Garden Discussion on Trust in BDSM by Garden Chat Topics Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1489&chapter=1
10/8/22 discussion of Trust in BDSM

Garden Topic Chat on Vetting by Garden Chat Topics Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1490&chapter=1
10/5/22 Discussion about Vetting New Partners

What We Want to Tell Our Younger Selves by Garden Chat Topics Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1491&chapter=1
9/17/22 Topic Chat What We Want to Tell Our Younger Selves

How to be a Dominant by Garden Chat Topics Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1492&chapter=1
9/24/22 Topic Chat on How to be a Dominant

SUBMISSION by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1459
Submission is an action of personal strength.

Sub-Space by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1465
Subspace – This term generally is used to describe a moderate to deep trancelike condition experienced by persons in the submissive position in a D/s relationship during interaction with the person in the Dominant position in the relationship.

Sterile Safety by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1458
Achievement of a state of sterility for objects used or reused in BDSM scening is often a poorly understood issue for newcomers into the D/s or BDSM communities.

SPIRITUALITY by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1457
I will express this from my personal viewpoint. When I view myself as a whole being I consider myself to be 3 distinct parts.

SPECIES TRAITOR ~ by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1456
The fostering of hostile malevolence sufficient to inspire a person to violate and betray that which nurtures, sustains and maintains their personal existence and the long term continued existence of their species.

SOFT LIMITS by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1455
Please take a moment to read the article titled ‘Hard Limits’ before continuing to read this article.

SOCIAL/SEXUAL MONOGAMY ~ by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1409
Monogamy is the condition of having a single mate at one time.

Slave Names and Tagging by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1468
Within ‘primarily’ the last 2,000 years the practice of naming became intricately attached to providing ‘lineage’ information across generational lives.

SHAME by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1453
Shame has been used as a control tool for countless centuries. As societies form they create appropriate rules of conduct.

SEXUAL RITUALISM ~ by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1452
Many of us tend to focus upon the quasi-sexual aspects of ‘scening’ within the BDSM lifestyle.

Sex by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1450
The sphere of interpersonal behavior most directly associated with leading up to, substituting for or resulting from genital union.

Setting up House by Illiana Cole Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1252
Considering 24/7 dynamics

SERVING by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1449
One of the most overlooked aspects of a long term D/s full time relationship is the orientation of the partner’s within the relationship ‘toward’ each other. D/s relationships tend to be very intimately involved and often present unique and complex issues. …

SELF ESTEEM ~ by FRR Mallory Conservative
http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1448
Self-esteem – to measure or evaluate an unstable dynamic state through material objects, money or perceptions of success within the physical plane.