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Your Role – Journal Prompt

On the chat Journaling Channel, Sleepmonger asks: In honor of the new reaction roles I’d like to hear everyone’s thoughts on just what each of the roles they’ve picked mean to them. This question is inspired from an outline for a profile post I struggled with elsewhere so full credit goes to the originators All […]

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The Sexuality of BDSM – Journal Prompt

On the Journal Channel in chat, Sleepmonger asks: The sexuality of BDSM might not be the main focus for everyone but it’s a huge part of it for a lot of us. So lets hear what gets everyone’s engine running. Is it the sensations? The sights and sounds? The thoughts going through your head? What […]

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BDSM Hierarchy – Journal Prompt

On the Journaling channel in chat, chrissa asks: Are you familiar with the BDSM hierarchy? – Submissive needs – Dominant needs – Dominant wants/whims – Submissive wants Have you ever thought about what your needs are? How do you separate what a “need” is from a “want”? What kind of ways do you approach conversation […]

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Journalling Channel

Chat has a new feature! It’s at #journaling and replaces our Monday topic chat with journaling prompts for any day. The channel is led by Sleepmonger and chrissa. “Welcome to the brand new Journaling channel! Starting soon there will be daily topics and questions to engage all of you in some longer form discussions surrounding […]

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Codependence and Ds-Ms

As I sit here (okay, stretch out over my bed with a cat shoved into my side) trying to come up with a blog idea, my mind wandered to what I have on tap for the rest of the week. Need to log in to a few of the local much Zooms, make sure sure […]

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Monster’s Muse

Hey, do you have a piece of jewelry from The Monster’s Muse? If so, she would love for you to leave a review for her on her page! She is offering up a piece of jewelry as an incentive to one lucky reviewer.https://www.facebook.com/MonstersMuse/soon again,k.