A vet is someone who is qualified to treat sick or injured animals. A vet is someone who has served in the armed forces of their country, especially during a war. To vet someone is to investigate fully before being given a particular job, role, or position, especially one that involves military or political secrets. […]
PLEASE SHARE Saturday at 11AM ET, we’ll be talking Punishment, “Funishment” and Corrective Action in BDSM relationships. Join us and bring your thoughts!
Best Practices for Explicit Prior Permission for Consent to Kink: 1. Did you agree to the specific acts you’re going to do together, including if there’s going to be any sexual contact like touching the breasts or genitals?2. Is everyone an adult and able to consent: they’re not under the influence, in subspace, having a […]
Last week, we were asked how one becomes a Dominant. Let’s chat about it this week! What does one have to do to be a Dom/me? Is it natural? Is there training? Study? Watching porn and imitating Christian Grey? Let’s chat together and try to answer one of the more difficult and common questions. Saturday […]
It is with the deepest grief that i announce the passing of our beloved Ms. Monster. Jenn was struck by a vicious cancer that was only discovered a few weeks ago. Tonight, at the age of 43, she passed away 9:42P.M. on 9/21/22 in Winnipeg, Canada. She was surrounded by children and family. Sero, Sir […]
SCENE SPEAK ~ by FRR Mallory Conservativehttp://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1446Scene speech is a language that we develop and use solely in-scene. We reserve this speech to augment and accentuate the atmosphere of the scene and often to heighten the sensory experience for both Dominant and submissive. SANITY by FRR Mallory Conservative http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1445Much is said about Safe, Sane and Consensual within the BDSM lifestyle, it […]
Metamour Day was created to honor the relationships between you and your metamours, however that might look. It is not about forced compersion. It’s about communal appreciation within our family structures and modeling positivity to the world around us. Metamour Day is a recognition of the unique and special relationships between metamours.
The world’s first restaurant designed for throuples is opening its doors for Valentine’s Day. Every year restaurants on February 14 are jam-packed with tables of twosomes, but times have changed and the idea that love should be limited to duos is outdated – for some, at least. That’s why, in a bid to show that […]