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This Practice from BDSM Should Be Part of Everyone’s Sex Lives — No Matter How You Play!

Happy Kinktober! Originally created as an event to share and create art, Kinktober has evolved into a celebration of all things kinky among sexuality educators and various kink communities. And when kink comes to play, there is automatically an understanding for the need of aftercare. Kink, when it comes to sexuality, is considered any practices, desires and fantasies that are considered […]

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When Stigma Gets in the Way of Kink

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/talking-about-trauma/202110/when-stigma-gets-in-the-way-kink People in kink communities need support and acceptance, not judgment.Robert T Muller Ph.D. Co-authored by Deanna Gisborne and Robert T. Muller, Ph.D. “The only guilt I feel is the manufactured cliché guilt that society thrusts upon people who have weird kinks.” Wilson (name changed for anonymity) has self-identified as part of the feederism community since elementary […]

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Somnophilia – The Kink for Sleeping Sex

Abby Mosshttps://www.lelo.com/blog/somnophilia-sleeping-sex/ This article was scientifically fact-checked by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. I recently came across a kink known as somnophillia, or sleep kink. I’ve written extensively about all kinds of kinks in the past, there isn’t a lot left out there that shocks me. Or makes me feel uncomfortable. But this kink seemed […]

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What Is Ethical Non-Monogamy?

For one thing, it’s a relationship style that’s becoming more popular than ever.by ALI WUNDERMAN AUG 31, 2021 The concept of having multiple sexual partners is nothing new to humanity—just ask the ancient Greeks, who enjoyed notoriously glorious sex lives and “had a desire for anyone and anything.” But when it comes to modern romance, navigating life beyond monogamy […]

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Codependence and Ds-Ms

As I sit here (okay, stretch out over my bed with a cat shoved into my side) trying to come up with a blog idea, my mind wandered to what I have on tap for the rest of the week. Need to log in to a few of the local much Zooms, make sure sure […]