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New on The BDSM Garden

SCENE SPEAK ~ by FRR Mallory Conservativehttp://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1446Scene speech is a language that we develop and use solely in-scene. We reserve this speech to augment and accentuate the atmosphere of the scene and often to heighten the sensory experience for both Dominant and submissive. SANITY by FRR Mallory Conservative http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1445Much is said about Safe, Sane and Consensual within the BDSM lifestyle, it […]

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Metamour Day

Metamour Day was created to honor the relationships between you and your metamours, however that might look. It is not about forced compersion. It’s about communal appreciation within our family structures and modeling positivity to the world around us. Metamour Day is a recognition of the unique and special relationships between metamours.

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Here’s How Kink Is Taking Over Social Media in the Wake of the Pandemic

It’s the Great Hornification of the 2020s.By Arielle Richardshttps://www.vice.com/en/article/z3n375/heres-how-kink-is-taking-over-social-media-in-the-wake-of-the-pandemic The internet has always been home to the horniest pockets of society. But since the heat of the pandemic and its multiple lockdowns, social media is hornier than ever.  Being “Horny on Main” was once the ultimate online faux pas – the descriptor given to anyone […]

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Most Recent PREVAILING VOICE by FRR Mallory Conservativehttp://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1427In many ways a human being can be fairly compared to a computer. It is possible to consider a persons ‘hardware’ to be the structure produced by the DNA coding at conception.     PRESENT by FRR Mallory Conservativehttp://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewstory.php?sid=1426Present is a command issued to and used by the submissive to formally present of themselves to […]

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How To Discuss Your Deepest, Darkest Desires and Kinks With Your Partner

Discussing our innermost fantasies can be scary. But they can also help unlock a whole new world of pleasure.  By Shamani Joshi https://www.vice.com/en/article/wxdnny/discuss-sex-desires-kinks-fetish-with-partner It’s easy to rant about some of the more mundane parts of life – hectic work schedules, disappointing travel experiences and failed diet fads. It’s the deeper, darker crevices of our consciousness that are often difficult to […]

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Rope Bondage Is About Far More Than Sex

https://www.thedailybeast.com/rope-bondage-is-about-far-more-than-sex Performers like Marceline V.Q. say they are reclaiming rope bondage for modern times. As she skillfully tied her partner onto a steel suspension tripod, Marceline V.Q. let her inspiration lead her. Using natural hemp ropes to recreate a scene from Michelangelo’s well-known fresco painting, The Creation of Adam, Marceline pondered every reaction her partner made, […]

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How to get consent for sex (and no, it doesn’t have to spoil the mood)

https://theconversation.com/how-to-get-consent-for-sex-and-no-it-doesnt-have-to-spoil-the-mood-172139Published: November 23, 2021 1.59pm EST •Updated: November 23, 2021 2.34pm ESTBy:Bianca Fileborn, Senior Lecturer in Criminology, The University of MelbourneandSophie Hindes, PhD Candidate, The University of Melbourne New South Wales and Victoria are set to introduce a suite of reforms to sexual offences legislation which set a new standard for sexual consent. Both states will implement an […]

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“Kink Helped My Mental Health”. The Healing Benefits Of BDSM

YASMIN LAJOIELAST UPDATED 23 NOVEMBER 2021, 2:02 PMhttps://www.refinery29.com/en-au/kink-bdsm-positive-impact-mental-health Warning: This article includes mentions of suicidality, rape, drug misuse, eating disorders and self-harm. Two years ago, 38-year-old Alice* suddenly went profoundly deaf. She lost her job, her boyfriend dumped her and the relentless tinnitus she experienced led her to have suicidal thoughts. “Before I went deaf, I was […]